Stop Lying!

So men, do you really think you have to pretend to like her cooking to get a little action? Or do you think you have to sacrifice the Saturday morning golf game because her mood will be too intolerable if you do golf?

Well, think again. Putting on the facade of whatever it is you think she wants you to be is only going to get you immediate rewards, at best. The problem, though, is sustaining the charade.

This takes energy, and it takes you away from what you really have to bring to the relationship. If you are really you, then you will be able to offer something she really likes.

Emotional intimacy. This stuff is the greatest foreplay you can imagine. She will love it. Being close to her man, feeling your presence right here and now, is mahvelous. You will score points, who knows what else, and likely have a great relationship too.

Of course, the risk of being you is that she may not like you. After all, she may have become accustomed to the fool you were pretending to be. If this is the case, and the relationship is unsalvageable, then it is probably best for both of you to move on.

Be honest, be you, and reap the rewards.

deorre